Have you ever seen a video phone sex chat room? Maybe you have, but it was so bad you probably ignored it or thought it was something else… or maybe you found out about it when your significant other decided he no longer wanted to be exclusive and decided to join the big boys in adult video chat rooms. And now that you have the opportunity, should you jump in head first? There are risks to video phone sex, so you should be aware of them.

Of course, having video phone sex without a real relationship is kind of silly–it’s kind of like watching porn on someone else. Having video phone sex while your significant other has obviously expressed his/her disinterest and discomfort about it only adds more questions about whether it’s actually fun or arousing to have this type of sex anyway. But, fear not, wondering if it’s possible to tease him out (har-har): what does it really mean to be sexually provocative on a cam? Well, it’s all in the balance: the same thing that makes normal regular phone sex so great is the same thing that makes webcam sex great as well: communication!

If the idea of two people on their computers isn’t enticing, consider the next time you hear the words “webcam” and “phones”. Chances are, that connection is going to lead you right back to the cam and video chat rooms of days gone by. The “big world” is getting smaller, with more people getting online and connecting via their smart phones (and laptops). Why can’t our sex lives be just as “small and cozy” with a video phone connection? Yes, we do have cell phones these days–even the super-slim iPod Touch and iPhone are available for web-based video chat! Plus, with the increasing availability of smart phones with cameras, more people are getting caught up on the latest craze: turning their computers into portable “sex partners” with video chat programs.

Of course, this type of fun is still a matter of a little imagination and good communication. You don’t want to act like a 15-year-old and tell him/her that it’s “not real sex” because, yup, it is. You also don’t want to talk down to your significant other–after all, you probably haven’t even seen them in person yet! If you’re just setting things up, you may want to take things slow. Here are some tips for using the video call function of your smart phone to your advantage:

Be informative. Make sure that you know as much as possible about your significant other. Don’t be afraid to ask them questions, no matter how silly or trivial they may seem. And, don’t be afraid to act like a total amateur. This will go a long way towards keeping your video cam phone sex from looking like a commercial, and instead, something real and…enjoyable.

Have fun! Talking dirty via a video call sex chat program is great for developing sparks that will light the fire between you and your partner. But if you want to really heat things up, get a camera and start filming! This will not only be a great way to practice your “making out” skills, it’ll also be a great way for you to build up your self-confidence so that you can actually enjoy having sex with your significant other.

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